This piece is mainly for the youth and teenagers, we all know what love is, even a child of twelve years old knows that love is sweet but they is always something you should know about love, love also hurt a lot, but it depends. Teenagers nowadays fall in love, but that not bad, what is bad is that this kind of love lures some of them into having sex. Sex is not a bad thing, but it only needs you to be ready for its consequences. Sex is equally sweet and bitter, so, before you involve yourself in sex, ask yourself this question.
Am I ready for it consequences?
Am I from a rich or poor background?
How will I face my friend and relations when am pregnant without being married?
What will I benefit from sex?
Am I ready to be a mother without a certificate?
Will my boyfriend be able to take care of me as he promises, if he won’t, how will I cope with life?
How will I take care of my baby if am pregnant?
Am not saying u should not have a boyfriend or a male friend, what am only trying to advice you as a sister is that never you allow him to lure u into having sex, tell him that you are not ready for it, if he tries to force you, stay away from him, stand by your words, let your no be no, no matter how you love him, make it clear to him that it for our own benefits..
Nowadays some male adults are trying to fool some young girls, telling them that they are ready to marry them and that you are meant for him, and he will give you all you need whatever your heart desire, this make some teenagers to fall for them but when pregnancy surface they ran away… dear it’s time to be wise, don’t be deceive by cheap words with no action like I want to marry you…
It pains me a lot seeing young girls with great ability and knowledge suffering just because of the word I love you that may not be true, being abandoned, thrown away, by parents and disown just because they put all their trust, love and believe in a guy who doesn’t worth it…in this life, it is only in God that u need to trust and believe.
There is also one thing I want you to know, if you are pregnant when you are married you will be proud of yourself, happy, satisfied, and loved by everyone, but if you are not married and you are pregnant you will be sad, unhappy, worried, abandoned by people, even your own boyfriend will reject you.
We should be able to say I don’t want to be hurt, I am meant to be happy because you are the only person to decide your happiness and sadness, you and you alone.
I love you all just stick to the advice.