When love is real, it doesn’t lie, cheat, pretend, hurt you or make you feel unwanted. It’s supposed to be a cure to all your worries
Men give varied reasons why they cheat: Some say it is because the wife has been disrespectful, not submissive, boring, rigid or nagging. But cheating is a choice. A man who is looking for respect, will respect his marriage. He will not do something dishonourable just because something is missing in his marriage. Whatever is missing in his marriage as head of the family, he adds it to his home. You can inspire your spouse to treat you right, especially if you do it before things get out of hand
Unfaithfulness is not part of the fruit of the Holy Spirit, faithfulness is. Cheating is a willing decision and there is no justification for it. It stems out of selfishness and lack of vision.
As a husband expects loyalty, he should give loyalty. Before a husband complains that his wife doesn’t treat him right, he needs to ask himself “Am I loving her like Christ loves the Church”?
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As head of the home, a husband has the power to influence and inspire how the wife he chose to marry treats him. If he wants great sex, he makes her feel sexy as a wife; if he wants respect, he does admirable things; if he wants love, he pampers her. The Bible is not wrong when it says how a husband treats his wife he treats himself. When a wife knows she is loved, she can’t help but love back. That means, him treating her right is actually him looking out for his interest because he reaps the benefits of a loved up wife.
When a husband turns outside for temporary fun, he has lost his vision, leadership and authority as head of the family.
Gentlemen, let us strive to be honourable men who follow through with character; not complaining boys who throw in the towel so easily. We don’t give up on our business if we believe in it just because it’s going through losses; why give up on our marriage just because for some time it faces challenges?
Real men stand up!
Be the real man!