Do you get this kind of messages on your inbox from various people?
Do these people come to you with so much energy and passion and then disappear out of the blue, only to come to you passionately at a later date?
Do you notice that such kind of people tend to show up on your inbox mostly at night?
Well, some people will only remember you when they are horny or bored, you’re not a priority to them, but once they need someone to entertain their sexual urge, they will look for you. They will feed off your flirt to excite them, they might request for a photo of your body, they might want phone sex with you, they might ask you where are you so that they come over for some sex.
These people, most of the time like to talk with you about sex. They don’t care about you or how you are, all they come for is some good time. Some might show a semblance of care, but it always goes back to being sexual. They will want to call you at night, they will send you porn, they will send you a picture of their penis even without you asking, they will praise your body. Once they get a high, they disappear and then come back later for another fix.
These kind of people will come running to your inbox once you post a new hot picture of yourself, they will notice the physical and because they are many, your hot pictures will have many likes.
It is up to you to shut them down. But if your lust matches up with their lust, you two will have a fiery session of sexting; who knows, maybe you two might meet up for sex. Perhaps you too are like such people only that you don’t have the guts to look for lustful conversations, you wait for people to look for you. Be sure what these people are doing with you, they are also doing with many other people; yesterday it was you, today it is Iniobong, tomorrow it will be Nkechi… yesterday it was you, today it is Sekinat, tomorrow it will be Muji.
Lust can never be satisfied, it always wants more. That’s why these people, if you entertain them, they will come looking for you many years later hoping to have what you used to have. Lust must be defeated.
Unfortunately, some married folks entertain such people. “It is JUST flirting, nothing serious” some married people say; not knowing the damage they are putting their marriage through. Many husbands have caught their wives sexting and flirting with these kind of people; many wives have caught their husbands exchanging nudes with these kind of people. These people have a way with words, they can sweet talk you. They will tell a wife things that her husband doesn’t tell her or stopped telling her; things like “I love how that dressing is hugging your figure”, “Your breasts look yummy, I wish I can suck them”.. They will tell the husband what the wife doesn’t tell him or stopped telling him; things like “Your penis is so big and strong”, “If that penis was mine I would ride it to sleep”… these people are daring.
With these seductive words, married folks fall. Married folks lose their balance and start being protective with their phones and sleeping around. As Proverbs 2: 16-17 says “Wisdom will save you also from the adulterous woman, from the wayward woman with her seductive words, who has left the partner of her youth and ignored the covenant she made before God”
Some of these people will look for you only when they need money, once they say “Hello”… be sure the next message will be “Can you help me with money?”… Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing bad or shameful about asking for money, but if that is all that a person is in your life for, that is not right. Don’t be used sexually or financially.
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